Is it time to say good bye? The man of your dreams has become A Nightmare! Three simple things to ask your self first!
Those things that were so cute before, aren't cute anymore. You used to lay in the bed all day and talk. Now not only aren't you talking but he is still in the bed and half the day is over! Yep not so cute huh? So what do you do at moments like this? Do you throw in the towel or stick it out.
Here are some good points to examine before you call the Game over....
1. Is this worth throwing away? Whether big or small when we are bothered by a pet peeve it can turn into a monster! So what is going on? If it sleeping all day ask yourself why? Maybe he or she is stressed or depressed. Flipping out wont help these situations only a good pick me up will help! So are you wanting to throw away what you have over stress, or depression? If so your significant other probably deserves some one who will put in the work..
2. Ask yourself really do you care anymore? Endless words, with no meaning, usually mean some where communication lines got crossed or lost. Whether you or him. Buckle in it maybe a bumpy ride with some things you may not want to hear. Let him or her open up and tell you where they feel the issues lye. However this has to be a two way street so you must be allowed to talk as well. note: arguing in this time will only cause more damage so give each other the chance to say there heart.
3. Can I see them with someone else? Particularly in this culture, where there is comparison around ever door. If you decide to walk away will you be OK with them moving on? Don't be the one who says Oh no I made a mistake. If it is worth it stay if not get out!
You only get one life. This is meant for daters not married couples! If you decided to marry them you have already made a commitment so remember why you married them and work together to get passed it. Lastly real relationships only work if two are working in them otherwise it is not a relationship~
Carolyn Curry
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