Wow the people around you. Change your world
just by carring your self with confidence.
How can you cause the Atmosphere to change when you enter a room. Yes your confidence.
How to portray confidence... Well you have to begin to look at things this way. Others see you the way you portray yourself so if you enter a room knowing that you are well put together, mentally, physically, and socially. Then you will pull the people to you.
Body language - What do your body language say about you..
Standing with your shoulders inward says you are holding back,afraid others wont accept you.
Indirect eye contact, when you look at someone do you look them in the eyes, or look down or out. Looking down say's that you are afraid that they are going to reject you. Looking out says you are simply not engaged.
Do you fidget? Moving your hands constantly, biting your lip, cracking your knuckles they are all nervous and yes annoying reactions that stop you from looking confident.
If you want to portray Confidence it is all mind over matter. Mentally prepare yourself, figure out what is causing you to look timid and tell yourself that you aren't going there!
Simply realizing it means you are one step closer. So now that you've done that put it to practice.
Here is one fact. You are completely capable of being confident. Another fact is this, no one else can do it for you.
I myself am a very confident person, not because I always feel like it. Simply because I believe that I have the ability to display confidence. Take control of your self by making decisive choices be able to know what you want is a confidence booster as well.
Do your homework. If you are buying a car you wanna know something about cars.
Of you are going to a prestigious party be dressed and aware of what you will be doing.
Even if you are unsure about what you want at dinner make the choice as if you knew all along.
If for some reason you say something stupid.... So what laugh with your friends co-workers, Being confident doesn't mean that you are always right or you never slip up. It simply means that you are able to believe in your self and trust who you are. If you are confident in yourself others will be too.
Direct eye contact says I can Handel this conversation head on, it also says you are worthy of my time and my eyes.
Standing straight up say's I am in control of my body and I am open for conversation.
Focus on what ever is at hand. handling the situations as they come or conversations as they come. Finish it out don't walk away unless the conversation is done it show that you are grounded and not flighty.
These are easy way to display confidence I am certain that if you are able to put these into practice you will notice a difference in the way interact... Others will too.
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